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Astrologer U Khin Aung Bo talks to Myanmar
Times reporter Juliet Shwe Gaung. Pic: Khin Hninn Phyu |
CHOOSING a name for a baby is just as difficult as choosing a
profession for an adult. It’s a lifelong commitment —
or so it may seem at the time.
In Myanmar, many people believe that your name can have a big
impact on your life. Followers of astrology believe that a name,
like a star sign, can determine your character and the number
of successful or distressing events in your life.
According to U Khin Aung Bo, an astrologer and chairman of the
Myanmar Astro Research Bu-reau, around 85 percent of the population
is superstitious when it comes to naming their children, and sometimes
themselves.
“A name has a strong influence on the direction someone’s
life will take and if they are not named properly the person will
experience few good things in their time,” said U Khin Aung
Bo.
Ma Wint Wint Hlaing, an accountant and astrology student, also
believes that your name influences your fate.
“As far as I’m concerned nobody has become successful
with a bad name,” she said.
“You don’t need to have a superb one — just
a pertinent one. Simple names, such as Mg Kway (Dog) and Ma Wat
Ma (Pig) are derogatory.
“I once knew a girl whose name was Thet Oo Khway (Soul
That Dies Young). She died at the age of 30. How did her parents
expect her have a good life when her name is so terrible?”
It is common practice to discuss the choice of a name with elders,
monks and astrologers in order to settle on the right one, but
U Khin Aung Bo warned that a recent boom in astrologers means
that you must choose whom you consult carefully.
“Many astrologers are emerging now, even on roadsides.
Many do not hold the qualifications necessary to choose something
as important as a name.
"I think that due to this fact people are shy about admitting
their belief in astrology,” said U Khin Aung Bo.
So how do you go about choosing a name?
“A name must be calculated correctly by an experienced
astrologer and should be pleasant to the ear,” he said.
Actor Min Maw Kun decided to trust his instincts and chose his
own name.
Just like Hollywood actors, Min Maw Kun changed his name from
Kyaw Kyaw Htay Lwin to further his career.
He said he doesn’t consider himself to be superstitious
but still went to the trouble of consulting an astrologer to find
the right name.
In the end, he went with his own choice.
“The name that the astrologer wanted me to take was Min
Thakin (King Master),” he said. “It didn’t exactly
suit me. I think your name should match your personality. I am
not a king.”
His birth name represents the day he was born — Monday
— and his father’s name.
Twenty-seven-year-old Ma Phyu Phyu Win said astrologers have
been trying to make her change her name for years.
Even her mother is pressuring her to change her name.
“I told her she should have got it right the first time.”
“They tell me it is damaging my education but I like it,”
she said.
Phyu Phyu Win means "white shine" and it was given
to her after a nurse commented on her light skin at birth.
A famous astrologer, Min Thein Kha, gave her the name Ei Kyar
Phyu, meaning "soft white lotus flower", but it didn’t
last long.
“The new name was weak. Afterward there was no improvement
in my life. I don’t believe that a name defines who you
are. You need to believe in yourself and make an effort to be
successful and achieve things despite it.”
U Khin Aung Bo said changing your name means nothing if the
name is not accepted by the person and by the people around them.
“It is vital that people accept and use a new name in
order for it to be beneficial,” he said.
The astrologer said that some people hold ceremonies to celebrate
their new name and help others embrace it.
But changing your name, as well as accepting it, doesn’t
ne-cessarily gau-rantee you a life of happiness and joy, said
U Khin Aung Bo.
Ma Wint Wint Hlaing can vouch for that.
“Some elderly family friends who changed their names failed
to get people to accept their new name,” she explained.
“I think that the older you are, the harder it becomes.”
Ko Zaw Win doesn’t believe that names predicting the course
of life.
“I am Buddhist and in Buddhist literature there is nothing
that suggests that a name has any effect on a person’s life,”
he said. “I strongly believe that all of my achievements
are a result of my own efforts.”